Every week I hear the same thing from business owners, members in Abundant Ads Academy, and even new done-for-you clients:
“My ads aren’t working. I think it’s the audience I’m targeting.”
Sound familiar?
If you’ve ever thought your Meta™ ads are flopping because you’re not picking the right audience, it’s time for a reality check.
I’ll let you in on something I teach inside Abundant Ads Academy and remind my private clients all the time – It’s rarely the audience that’s the problem.
Let me explain why.
Facebook™ Isn’t Sticking to Your Targeting Anyway
Gone are the days when hyper-specific interest targeting ruled the Ads Manager. Today, Facebook™ treats your targeting as more of a suggestion. And honestly? That’s a good thing.
I’ve seen incredible results from broad-targeted campaigns, where Facebook’s algorithm had the space to do what it does best – find the people most likely to convert.
When we stop micro-managing who sees the ads, and instead focus on what those people see, your messaging & creative, that’s when the magic happens.
Which brings us to the real secret…
Messaging Is the New Targeting
Your messaging, the words in your ad, your headline, your landing page copy, is what trains the algorithm.
When your messaging clearly states:
- What the offer is (free or paid)
- Who it’s for
- The problem it solves
- The outcome it delivers
…Facebook learns who is engaging. And then it finds more people just like them.
Messaging is what attracts the right audience, ignites trust and activates leads to take the next step.
If your messaging is off, it won’t matter how “perfect” your audience settings are. The wrong people will click, or no one will.
But if your messaging is magnetic? Facebook™ will run with it and scale your results.
Objective Matters More Than Targeting
Here’s another common issue I see far too often.
Running a traffic campaign when you actually want leads.
It sounds logical – “If more people land on my page, more people will opt in.” Right?
Wrong.
Facebook’s algorithm does exactly what you tell it. If you set your objective to traffic, Facebook will find people who click, not people who convert.
So if your goal is lead generation, you need to run a campaign with the lead objective. Full stop.
Let me share a quick case study.
A new client (a life coach) came to me after setting up her ads with the help of a Meta™ rep. She was getting leads at $8.37. Not terrible, but not great.
Her campaign was set to the traffic objective.
I switched her campaign over to lead generation, using the exact same creative and copy.
Her cost per lead dropped instantly to $2.21.
That’s four times more leads. No new ad design. No extra copywriting. Just the right objective and a Facebook™-friendly structure.
Let Meta Do Its Job & You Do Yours
Here’s the truth.
Your job isn’t to control every detail of the audience targeting. That’s Meta’s job.
Your job is to:
- Craft clear, compelling messaging
- Offer something that your ideal audience desires
- Set the right campaign objective
- Let the algorithm gather data and optimise
This aligns beautifully with the Webonize Framework’s AIA Model – Attract, Ignite, Activate:
- Attract the right audience with clear, benefit-led messaging.
- Ignite their interest with emotionally relevant copy.
- Activate them into action by aligning your campaign goals with your ad objectives.
It’s all connected. And it works when you let the right elements do their part.
The Bottom Line
If your Meta™ ads aren’t performing, don’t be so quick to blame your audience.
Start by checking:
- Is your messaging crystal clear?
- Are you using the correct campaign objective?
- Are you letting the algorithm optimise by giving it good data and giving it time to do its job?
When you get those elements right, Facebook does the rest.
This is the power of a smart, streamlined strategy, something we go deep into inside Abundant Ads Academy.
So before you scrap your audience settings, revisit your messaging and objectives first.
Because in 2025, smart marketers aren’t just guessing. They’re guiding the algorithm with clarity, strategy and messaging that converts.

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