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If your marketing feels technically accurate but somehow still isn’t landing, there’s a good chance you’re dealing with something I’ve started calling the Expert Messaging Disconnect.
It’s a gap that opens up the more experienced you become in your industry. The more you know about your subject, the more differently you start to see the problem you solve. You understand the root cause. You know the methodology that fixes it. You’ve probably developed your own language around it. But your ideal client isn’t there yet. They’re still experiencing the problem from their own perspective, using their own words, and that’s exactly where the disconnect begins when it comes to your marketing and messaging.
Where the Gap Actually Starts
You know the root cause. Your ideal client knows the symptom, and how frustrated they are by it. You know the methodology they need. They know what they want fixed. You know the industry terminology. They know how the problem feels on a Tuesday afternoon when it’s happening again for the hundredth time.
Your marketing needs to start where they are, not where your years of expertise have taken you. Because if there’s too much distance between those two points, your marketing can be completely accurate and still fail to connect. You can be saying all the right things technically while your ideal client reads your ad or landing page and quietly thinks, “that’s not really my problem,” and keeps scrolling.
A Simple Example
Imagine a naturopath who specialises in women’s gut health. A prospective client comes to her describing a stomach so bloated by the afternoon that she has to undo the top button on her jeans. She’s uncomfortable, she’s tired, and she’s frustrated because she feels like she’s already eating well.
As the expert, the naturopath might immediately start thinking about the physiological mechanisms underneath all of that, which systems need supporting, what needs investigating. But that isn’t how the woman is describing her problem. She’s simply asking, “why am I still bloated when I’m eating healthy?”
That’s the conversation top-of-funnel marketing needs to enter. An ad filled with the correct physiological terminology could be completely accurate butl get scrolled past, because the reader doesn’t yet know that’s what she needs. An ad that says “still bloated every afternoon even though you’re eating healthy?” gets attention, because it reflects her own experience back to her. That’s what good messaging does. It acts like a mirror, and the reader thinks, “that’s me.”
Give People What They Want Before What You Know They Need
This is something I describe as giving people what they want before giving them what you know they need. To be clear, this isn’t about offering something you don’t believe will help. It’s about where the conversation starts.
You might know that what someone ultimately needs is different from what they currently think they need, and that’s fine, because guiding them there is your job as the expert. But you can’t guide anyone if you haven’t got their attention first. So at the top of your funnel, start with the problem they already know they have, the outcome they already want, and the words they’re already using. Once they’re in your world and trust starts building, that’s when you can introduce the deeper problem and your methodology.
Three Ways to Spot the Disconnect in Your Own Marketing
There are three quick checks I’d encourage you to run on your own marketing.
First, look at your language. Go through your website, landing pages, ads, Instagram bio and emails and ask whether you’re using the words your ideal client actually uses, or the words you and other experts in your industry use. The fastest way to find the real words is to listen to your sales calls, read the questions prospective clients send you, and pay attention to what they say in Facebook™ groups, on Reddit and in your DMs. Don’t translate those words into something more sophisticated. Use them exactly as they are.
Second, check whether you’re leading with what people want or what you know they need. Ask yourself: if someone knew nothing about my methodology, would this message still make sense to them? Would they recognise themselves in it?
Third, look at how much you’re trying to teach in your marketing. Education and good marketing aren’t always the same thing. You can produce educational content that proves how knowledgeable you are and still generate very few leads, because your audience didn’t need another lesson. They need to know you understand their problem and can help them get the outcome they want.
Why This Matters Even More With Facebook™ and Instagram™ Ads
With organic content, someone following you may already understand your terminology because they’ve been consuming your content for months. With an ad, you could be appearing in front of someone who has never seen you before, and you have seconds to make them think “this is relevant to me.” If your messaging starts from your level of expertise rather than their current experience, you’ve made their job too hard, and they’ll keep scrolling.
The same consistency needs to carry through to your landing page. An ad that beautifully reflects someone’s immediate problem can’t send them to a landing page that suddenly turns broad or filled with expert language. The person should click your ad, land on your page, and immediately feel, “yes, this is exactly what I thought it was going to be.”
Final thoughts
The more expertise you gain, the greater the potential distance between how you see your ideal client’s problem and how they see it themselves. That’s not a bad thing, it’s what makes you the expert. But being an expert and marketing that expertise are two different skills, and you need both.
Your expertise proves you’re knowledgeable later. Your messaging needs to show your ideal client you understand what they’re going through right now. So walk back to where they are, listen to their words, reflect their experience back to them, and then use your expertise to lead them forward.
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